Topic: Dating

You Probably Know Someone Who Met Their Spouse Online

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If you aren't already looking for love online, maybe you should start. Because those who've already found love on the intertubes are enjoying happy, stable marriages while you continue having empty, fleeting relationships with people you meet in real life. 

By Alexander Abad-Santos

Jan 17, 2013

Tina Fey Wants Boring People to Get a License to Twitter

Every day The Atlantic Wire highlights the video clips that truly earn your five minutes (or less) of attention.

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By Jen Doll

Jan 16, 2013

Dating Lessons from the New York Post

What if we all dated according to the "trends" spotted by the New York Post? 'Twould be an interesting relationship world indeed. And where would the paper itself fall in all of that?

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By Jen Doll

Jan 11, 2013

Why This Outdated Dating Manual Did Not Need a Social-Media Update

The Rules, a dating instruction manual of yore by two ladies named Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider should, by now, have gone the way of the cave drawing or the horse and buggy, as a relic of times past. Instead it's been updated.

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By Jen Doll

Dec 26, 2012

In What World Is Credit-Score Dating Actually a Thing?

There's a piece on the front page of The New York Times today that's inspiring lots of "dating is hell" commentary from around the Internet, because from this piece comes the "decidedly unromantic question" of our time: "What's your credit score?"

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By Jen Doll

Oct 31, 2012

The Trouble With Interpolitical Dating Is Just the Trouble with Dating

Can you, if you are a Democrat, even, perhaps, not an actively campaigning one, but one who would certainly never deign to vote for Mitt Romney, consider in good faith a Republican as a possible suitor? Can you, if you are a Republican, ever love someone who believes in the presidency of Barack Obama?

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By Alexander Abad-Santos

Oct 25, 2012

The New York Times's Dating Advice: Lower Your Standards

The New York Times decided to do its best Carrie Bradshaw impersonation for one trend story today and is alerting ladies and gentlemen, but mostly ladies (we think), to one important fact: dating has changed and it's good news for dudes. 

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By Jen Doll

Oct 16, 2012

Dating Advice from a Dumpster Diver

Every so often we get one of those articles about how someone more frugal than your average frugal person is living off the land on the cheap, surviving on stuff discovered in Dumpsters and other people's trash. But they have limits, these people do.

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By Rebecca Greenfield

Oct 10, 2012

HeTexted Is Really About Mocking the Clueless

This new dating advice website HeTexted.com masks itself as a way to help women decipher text messages from boys, but is actually all about making fun of how "clueless" women are when it comes to men.

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By Jen Doll

Oct 10, 2012

Rupert Murdoch, Millionaire Matchmaker?

It's the third day of coverage in the New York Post for Larry Greenfield, the multi-millionaire who said that the six matchmaker services to whom he'd paid $65,000 hadn't done a good enough job in the last 12 years and 250 women to set him up with the girl of his dreams.

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By Jen Doll

Oct 9, 2012

The Curse of the Too-Picky Multimillionaire

This week's love lesson comes by way of the New York Post, where much ink has been dedicated to the relationship travails of Larry Greenfield, 47, a retired Long Island securities trader who has spent more than $65,000 on six different matchmaking services in 12 years.

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By Jen Doll

Oct 1, 2012

The 'Coffice' Romance for Freelancers Without an Office

Ah, what is a freelancer to do about love, given all the working from home alone in a state of barely dressed disarray he or she tends to do—meaning that said freelancer doesn't see anyone other than, maybe, a food delivery person or his or her own cat, on a regular basis? The answer is coffee. 

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By Esther Zuckerman

Sep 21, 2012

Trimming the Times

Rusty the Horse, NFL Helmets, and Junot Díaz

A summary of the best reads found behind the paywall of The New York Times.

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By Jen Doll

Sep 21, 2012

The Search for Love Offline, With a Sign

Online dating is now so commonplace that we need scientific research to remind us that, oh yes, it's not that as a form of dating it's any better at helping you find your soulmate (or just a likely companion) than the traditional varieties. What's wrong with an old-fashioned sign?

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By Jen Doll

Sep 19, 2012

Single Baby Boomers Are Just Like Us

Someday, we'll all be reading online, you'd imagine, but for now we have an Internet overly populated by youngs, particularly when it comes to blogging and revealing the ins and outs of their dating lives and oft TMI sexual exploits.

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By Jen Doll

Aug 27, 2012

The Waitstaff Is Watching You Date

Your best-kept dating secrets are not so secret after all. According to Ellen McLaughlin's recent sociological study in the New York Post, the waitstaff and bartenders and managers at any number of New York City restaurants and bars (and then some) are on to your techniques. 

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By Jen Doll

Aug 1, 2012

The Trials of Being a Married Olympian

Two things that might not go together like peas and carrots: Marriage and the Olympics.

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By Jen Doll

Jul 23, 2012

Commuting to the Suburbs of Love

Allegedly, the latest "technique" demonstrated by women seeking men to date is to hop onto commuter trains and head for more fertile ground in the land of the cul-de-sac.

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By Alexander Abad-Santos

Jun 29, 2012

Dating Is Just So Depressing

Every day The Atlantic Wire highlights the video clips that truly earn your five minutes (or less) of attention.

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By Jen Doll

Jun 19, 2012

'Miss Advised' and the Inherent Sexism of the Dating Show

Can a dating show treat women fairly without belittling them or resorting to stereotypes? I'd like to see it.

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By Alexander Abad-Santos and Jen Doll

Jun 12, 2012

What Type of Attachment Dater Are You?

We're all attachment daters on some level. That's what dating is: Attaching, and detaching, and sometimes attaching again. You're probably not as bad as the "Overly Attached Girlfriend" meme, but chances are, you show some signs of attachment to whomever you are dating. 

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By Jen Doll

Jun 5, 2012

Women Do Not Need 'Reasons' for Being Single or Childless

Women should feel free not to have babies, or not to get married, as they see fit. That's the mark of a progressive society! Except, if that's the case, why do we have to keep talking, talking, talking about it?

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By Jen Doll

Jun 5, 2012

Who Sleeps Better, Couples or Singles? The Debate Rages

Hold on to your mattresses, single people living alone: "Couples may get health benefits simply from sleeping in the same bed, a burgeoning field of study is showing."

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By Jen Doll

May 29, 2012

The Horrifying Rise of the 'Relationship Contract'

There's a new trend in relationship management, and it's called the "relationship contract." How fun does that sound?

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By Jen Doll

May 21, 2012

Dating Survey Guy Speaks, Defends Himself Against Creepiness

Last week, the dating "mistake" that had the Internet cluck-clucking in joyful schadenfreude was the "creepy" survey sent by a "24-year-old finance guy," known as Mike, to one of his dates. Mike has gotten in touch to share his side of the story.

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By Jen Doll

May 16, 2012

Everything We Do While Dating Is Creepy and Potentially Viral

We love to talk about relationships, good and bad, and probably always will. Most especially, we love it when we think people are doing them wrong.

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By Jen Doll and Richard Lawson

May 2, 2012

Lies Hollywood Told Us: Love and Romance Edition

Love is hard. Romantic movies make it harder.

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By Jen Doll

Apr 26, 2012

Where New York's Cheaters Live (According to an Infidelity Website)

According to an important study done by the company that runs a website for cheaters—yes, we're talking about AshleyMadison.com, which seems to be extremely good at marketing itself these days—the cheating-est New York-area town is Great Neck, Long Island.

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By Jen Doll

Apr 23, 2012

Andrea Peyser Does Not Approve of This 'Online Dating'

Poor misguided "dating spreadsheet guy" of last week has another moment in the New York Post, this time from Andrea Peyser, our new favorite dating columnist, who's not only full of advice but also so effervescently positive.

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By Jen Doll

Apr 20, 2012

Woman Rated Highly on Dating Spreadsheet Defends Spreadsheet Dating

Thursday we defended our hapless romantic spreadsheet user—a man who used an Excel document to "keep track of" dates he met on Match.com. Now, we hear from an actual human woman who interacted with him online.

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By Jen Doll

Apr 5, 2012

The Urban Myth of the City Girl and the Country Cowboy

A quarter of the cover of The New York Post is devoted to the kind of story that pops up regularly as a warning screed, or perhaps a reminder, to the women of New York.

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By Jen Doll

Mar 13, 2012

The Business of Revamping Your Online Dating Profile

Even though so many people are meeting each other and forming relationships online that your grandma can't even really look at you funny for it (maybe she's doing it herself), a lot of us are doing it wrong. That's where Christine Hooker, professional online dating consultant, comes in.

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By Jen Doll

Mar 12, 2012

The Apartments Most in Need of a Spring Cleaning

Recently, this writer was enjoying cocktails with a companion who revealed a horrifying secret: his apartment was so repugnant, he confessed, that it had actually led to the speedy demise of what might have become a relationship—or at least a physical liaison of some sort.

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By Jen Doll and Rebecca Greenfield

Feb 29, 2012

Cocktail Crossfire

Cocktail Crossfire: Are Internet Marriage Proposals Acceptable?

We've now seen two Internet marriage proposals in just a few weeks, one on Mashable another on BuzzFeed. Is this an acceptable way to ask for someone's hand in marriage? We discuss. 

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By Jen Doll

Feb 20, 2012

Can Your iPhone Flirt for You? An App Road Test

Is flirting the old-fashioned way for chumps? We enlisted help from Beth Griffenhagen, author of Haiku for the Single Girl, to test out a few of the new flirting apps on her recent evenings about town. Here's what she found.

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By Jen Doll

Feb 14, 2012

Words With Friends Is Basically a Dating App

According to a recent survey from Zynga of more than 118,000 players of the game, Words With Friends is good for scoring "both on and off the board."

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By Jen Doll and Richard Lawson

Feb 14, 2012

Cocktail Crossfire: Is Valentine's Day for Suckers?

It's Valentine's Day. Not sure how you should feel about that? Read on. 

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By Jen Doll

Feb 13, 2012

Old People Are Getting Better at Dating

Get this, America: old people are dating. They may, in fact, be better at dating than you are.

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By Elspeth Reeve

Feb 9, 2012

Are the Craigslist CPACers Following the CPAC Dating Advice?

The Republican Party is not known for promoting casual dating, so naturally the Conservative Political Action Conference's panel on conservative dating drew more reporters -- like NASCAR fans rooting for a crash -- than small-government singletons ISO same.

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By Jen Doll

Feb 9, 2012

Actual Wall Streeters Respond to Matchmaker’s Tips for Dating Them

Samantha Daniels, a “professional matchmaker and dating expert,” has taken to CNBC with a tip sheet on how to date Wall Street men. 

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By Jen Doll

Feb 2, 2012

Survey: Women Are from Mars, Men Are Adorable, Republicans Are Best in Bed

Ooh-ee. Match.com has released their second annual "Singles in America" study, and the information contained within ranges from scintillating to as approximately tepid as a lukewarm bath. Which is not unpleasant, really. 

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By Jen Doll

Jan 31, 2012

Rejected and Don't Know Why? There's an App for That

In the etiquette of dating there is something you might call, colloquially, "the fade out," or perhaps "the fadeaway"—you also might call it, in harsher terms, being rejected by someone who deems it not important to actually tell you you are being rejected.

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By Rebecca Greenfield

Jan 6, 2012

Today in Research

Everyone's Doing Drugs; A Reason to Play Outside

Discovered: Everyone's doing drugs, a reason to play outside more often, we lie about our romantic attractions, when our brains start dying, the right type of food and exercise. 

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By Connor Simpson

Aug 11, 2011

The Sultry Eyes of Julian Assange

No one is safe from the Wikileaks leader's charming advances.

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By Elspeth Reeve

Apr 12, 2011

Coldplay Fans Won't Sleep with You on the First Date

A survey shows that Nirvana fans, however, are the most likely to jump straight into bed

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By Uri Friedman

Mar 3, 2011

Spatwatch

Why Do Smart Men Date Less Intelligent Women?

A dating debate framed in Wall Street terms

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