Topic: Marriage

Stop Listening to Advice About When to Get Married

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Will women ever stop giving unasked-for advice to other women about when to get married? And why do we insist on engaging in this cycle? A reflection on the end of the sad "Princeton Mom" meme.

By Jen Doll

Mar 26, 2013

What the Definition of Marriage Tells Us About Marriage Equality

Right now, people around the country and beyond are heading to their computers and looking up the word marriage. What does the definition of the word tell us about the current state of our view of marriage equality?

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By Jen Doll

Mar 19, 2013

When the Proposal Costs More Than a Wedding

Sometimes we consider the big day more important than the "entire life" together. Now, apparently, that thinking has pushed past the wedding itself. It's all about the proposal, too.

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By Esther Zuckerman

Mar 6, 2013

Trimming the Times

Hoping for a Liberal Pope, Marriage by Skype, and a New BBQ Mecca

A summary of the best reads found behind the paywall of The New York Times.

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By David Wagner

Jan 30, 2013

Today in Research

Should We Believe Research That Says Men Who Do More Chores Have Less Sex?

Discovered: Does sex really vanish when men do more chores?; weighing black holes; why you should get most of your eating in before 3:00 p.m.; a quarter-billion year old tapeworm. 

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By Jen Doll

Jan 7, 2013

In Search of New Words for That Thing Called Love

In Sunday's New York Times there's an article that combines things relationship with things semantic. What in the world are you supposed to call the man or woman with whom you've been living with for the past 20 years — your de facto spouse — when you're not actually, officially married, and never want to be?

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By Jen Doll

Nov 29, 2012

The Path of the Lonely, Single Young Man (and What It Means for Women)

In his Salon piece, "I was a male spinster," Tim Gihring speaks to a feeling common to men and women of a certain age who haven't yet seen fit to do the proposal-and-ring thing in the time expected of them.

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By Jen Doll

Oct 1, 2012

Researcher: 'There Is No Causal Relationship' Between Sharing Housework and Divorce

On Friday the news of a certain study was making the Internet rounds, pleasing an array of people who seemed to take it as support that all this "feminism" and "gender equality" stuff was a bunch of bunk, that women should really be in the kitchen, doing housework, if they expected their marriages to remain marriages and not head toward divorce post-haste.

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By Jen Doll

Sep 28, 2012

Nothing Perks Up a Marriage Proposal Like Impending Doom

Hark, a new entry in our ever-growing list of questionable marriage proposals! In this case, as reported by the Chicago Sun-Times, pilot Ryan Thompson proposed during a sightseeing flight with his girlfriend by claiming that something was wrong with the plane.

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By Jen Doll

Sep 28, 2012

Does Sharing Housework Really Lead to Divorce?

There's a study in the news that's bound to get a bunch of people talking (Drudge tweeted it this morning, for instance, with more than 100 retweets). Whether those people are for or against its pronouncements, it seems to fly in the face of what we thought we knew about marriage, gender equality, and the way modern, successful relationships work.

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By Alexander Abad-Santos

Sep 26, 2012

Hong Kong Tycoon Offers Bounty to the Man Who Marries His Lesbian Daughter

A Hong Kong tycoon is very upset that his daughter is a lesbian, so he's doing what any father would do and offer $65 million bounty to any man than can woo her away from her lesbian ways.

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By Jen Doll

Sep 25, 2012

The Time of the Extreme Prenuptial Agreement

Today Doree Lewak takes on prenups in the New York Post, and they are crazy! It says it right there in the article headline, "New York's craziest prenups." So it's gotta be good. What are they? How nuts, exactly? And what does it mean?

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By Jen Doll

Sep 24, 2012

Give Premarital Sex a Chance

We've all heard the schoolchildren's chant that goes, basically, "First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes a baby in a baby carriage," or some iteration thereof. Of course, in this day and age, that's not always the chronology at all.

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By Jen Doll

Sep 4, 2012

How Not to Ask Someone to Marry You

People, people, people. We realize some of you are very eager to wed one another, and that you want to do it in the right way. You know, by asking in the most visible and obvious fashion that shows the world how much you really do care. While this is a lovely gesture, you should stop. 

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By Richard Lawson

Aug 22, 2012

CBS Awkwardly Enters the Women and Marriage Debate

CBS is going to talk about marriage. Not gay marriage, no.The marriage talk we're referring to is the conversation sparked by the controversial "All the Single Ladies" article that ran a few months back in the pages of our big sister publication, The Atlantic.

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By Jen Doll

Aug 1, 2012

The Trials of Being a Married Olympian

Two things that might not go together like peas and carrots: Marriage and the Olympics.

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By Dashiell Bennett

Jul 10, 2012

Do Wives Really Only Watch Sports Because of Their Husbands?

A new study claims that wives who watch sports on TV generally only do so as a way to bond with their husbands, but we aren't sure the numbers on the scoreboard back that up. 

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By Dashiell Bennett

Jul 10, 2012

Episcopal Church to Offer a New Blessing for Gay Marriage

The Episcopal Church has approved a new liturgy that allows priests and bishops to provide official blessings for same-sex marriages.

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By Rebecca Greenfield

Jun 26, 2012

Today in Research

A Magic Poo-Enhancing Toilet; The Science of Bieber Fever

Discovered: An eco-friendly toilet, living together before marriage is a bad idea, once again coffee does good things to our bodies, and Bieber Fever is mental.

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By Jen Doll

Jun 19, 2012

Redrawing the Lines of 'Togetherness' in Relationships

The Wall Street Journal reveals what you already knew: People in relationships sometimes need time alone to do their own things away from the prying gaze of their significant other.

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By Jen Doll

Jun 5, 2012

Women Do Not Need 'Reasons' for Being Single or Childless

Women should feel free not to have babies, or not to get married, as they see fit. That's the mark of a progressive society! Except, if that's the case, why do we have to keep talking, talking, talking about it?

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By Jen Doll

Jun 5, 2012

Who Sleeps Better, Couples or Singles? The Debate Rages

Hold on to your mattresses, single people living alone: "Couples may get health benefits simply from sleeping in the same bed, a burgeoning field of study is showing."

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By Jen Doll

May 9, 2012

France's Unmarried First Lady Can Teach Us A Lot About Marriage

There's a new French president, and with him, a new French First Lady. But—shhh—they're not married. 

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By Jen Doll

Apr 26, 2012

Where New York's Cheaters Live (According to an Infidelity Website)

According to an important study done by the company that runs a website for cheaters—yes, we're talking about AshleyMadison.com, which seems to be extremely good at marketing itself these days—the cheating-est New York-area town is Great Neck, Long Island.

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By Jen Doll

Apr 18, 2012

Is Citibank Judging You for Being Single?

Just because more people are living alone by choice doesn't mean they don't have their share of problems. Add to that possible trouble: Bank accounts. In particular, those privacy questions you're supposed to answer in order to access your account.

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By Jen Doll

Apr 13, 2012

The Terrifying Wedding Diets That Are All the Rage

There are stats to back up the fact that a majority of engaged women want to drop as much as 20 pounds before they walk down the aisle. But there's a newer, more disturbing ante-up at work. Pre-wedding diets have become extreme.

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By Jen Doll

Apr 12, 2012

Living Alone Really Is the New Shacking Up for Some Couples

Living alone just keeps getting more popular, with even committed couples deciding to live by themselves—albeit maybe in houses right next door to each other. We explore the phenomenon.

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By Jen Doll

Mar 2, 2012

Is America Heading Toward a Post-Marriage Society?

With fewer adults deciding to marry than ever in American history, it's not hard to wonder what a post-marriage society would look like—and are we on our way there already? 

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By Jen Doll and Rebecca Greenfield

Feb 29, 2012

Cocktail Crossfire

Cocktail Crossfire: Are Internet Marriage Proposals Acceptable?

We've now seen two Internet marriage proposals in just a few weeks, one on Mashable another on BuzzFeed. Is this an acceptable way to ask for someone's hand in marriage? We discuss. 

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By Jen Doll

Feb 29, 2012

Sadie Hawkins Day, Mangagement Rings, and Sexism

Happy Leap Day. Today is a day that comes around only once every four years, and traditionally, because it was so shocking to imagine a woman ever proposing to a man, today would have been the day for that sort of funny business.

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By Jen Doll

Feb 24, 2012

Women Are Still Being Judged for Not Taking Their Husbands' Last Names

Right now in the most of the developed world, it could be argued, women are considered about as "equal" to men as they have ever been. Yet there are deep, abiding problems that we're still working through.

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By Ray Gustini

Feb 21, 2012

What the Tweet?

Chimps Shouting, Orange-Tossing, and a Pancake Day Miracle

After a day of staring at Twitter, we're sharing our favorite tweets that made no sense

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By Jen Doll

Feb 20, 2012

Is Marriage Only for the Rich and Well-Educated?

We're starting to dance around a reality in which marriage is no longer for everyone. What's important is the question of why that's the case, and what happens next.

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By Dino Grandoni

Feb 16, 2012

Stat of the Day

8.4 Percent of All Marriages Are Interracial Now

Those searching for more signs of "how far American has come" from its ugly racist past have a new statistic to latch onto today.

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By Jen Doll

Feb 14, 2012

Words With Friends Is Basically a Dating App

According to a recent survey from Zynga of more than 118,000 players of the game, Words With Friends is good for scoring "both on and off the board."

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By Jen Doll

Feb 13, 2012

The Era of Women Playing Dumb for Men Has Ended

Women who fear they'll never find a husband because they're "too smart," "too well educated," "intimidating," or "too successful" should stop being afraid—in fact, we'd argue they shouldn't have been afraid in the first place.

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By Ray Gustini

Jan 30, 2012

What the Tweet?

Gold Swords, Marriage Killers, and Pricey Moon Colonies

After a long day spent staring at Twitter, we're sharing our favorite tweets that made no sense

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By Erik Hayden

Oct 11, 2011

Single Ladies and the State of the Modern Marriage

In The Atlantic, Kate Bolick examines "the strange state of affairs" of modern marriage

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By Dino Grandoni

Aug 10, 2011

Stat of the Day

Twice as Many Unmarried Adults Cohabiting, Compared to Mid-1990s

Cohabitation is better economically for the college-educated

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By John Hudson

Jul 12, 2011

Polygamist Reality TV Stars Fight for the Right Not to Be Married

They'll seek protection under a Supreme Court ruling striking down anti-sodomy laws

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By Ray Gustini

Jun 30, 2011

If Obama Wants to 'Evolve' On Gay Marriage, Dan Savage Will Help

At White House Pride Month event last night, the sex columnist stepped forward

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